Husband-catcher Coconut Cake Delight

Category: Sweet Treats Without Turning On the Oven

This Venezuelan coconut cake, known as husband-catcher, is prized for its soft crumb and vibrant tropical flavor. Fresh milk, coconut milk, eggs, and a hint of vanilla create a tender base, while a quick-simmered coconut glaze adds sweetness and shine. Using a blender ensures effortless mixing and a perfectly smooth batter. The cake bakes into a golden round, to be chilled and generously topped with coconut flakes for a festive finish. Serve well-cooled for maximum flavor and an extra-refreshing treat, making it a showstopper at any dessert table.

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Created By Melanie Carter
Updated on Wed, 04 Jun 2025 00:21:37 GMT
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This coconut cake known as Husband-catcher or atrapamarido is famous for its irresistible moistness and tropical flavor. It is the kind of dessert that always steals the show at family gatherings and holidays. The magic is in the creamy coconut glaze and the tender crumb that feels more like a creamy pudding than a traditional cake.

The first time I made this was for a holiday dinner with lots of cousins. Someone joked that it was so good it could win anyone’s heart and since then it has been the family’s most requested dessert.

Ingredients

  • Milk: Use two percent milk for better richness Whole milk also works but avoid skim for flavor
  • Coconut milk: Pick a creamy full fat coconut milk for best results It brings out the coconut flavor in every bite
  • Condensed milk: Sweetens and adds creamy texture Make sure your can is not expired for smooth blending
  • Flour: All purpose flour for structure Sift before adding to avoid lumps
  • Eggs: Bind the batter and give the cake its pudding-like texture Choose fresh eggs for best lift
  • Sugar: For sweetness Use fine granulated so it dissolves smoothly
  • Vanilla extract: Rounds out the flavors If possible choose pure vanilla
  • Coconut flakes: Unsweetened or lightly sweetened gives perfect texture and extra coconut punch
  • Cornstarch: For the glaze Use fresh cornstarch for best thickening
  • Always check expiration dates on baking staples and taste your coconut milk before using since fresher is always better

Step-by-Step Instructions

Prepare the Batter:
Pour milk coconut milk condensed milk flour eggs sugar and vanilla into your blender. Blend on medium for at least five to ten minutes. The batter should become completely uniform with no visible lumps.
Grease and Fill the Pan:
Generously grease a fluted tube pan with butter or nonstick spray. Pour in the blended batter. Smooth the top with a spatula to level out any bubbles for an even bake.
Bake the Cake:
Set the pan in the middle rack of your oven preheated to 180 Celsius. Bake for thirty five minutes. When ready a knife inserted comes out with moist crumbs and the top will be lightly golden.
Make the Glace:
While the cake bakes combine coconut milk and sugar in a small saucepan. Warm over medium heat for ten minutes stirring occasionally until the liquid reduces and thickens. Add the cornstarch dissolved in water and grated coconut. Stir constantly until the glaze thickens and a spoon leaves a trail that slowly fills back in.
Cool and Glaze:
Remove the cake from the oven and let it rest for at least twenty minutes in the pan. Gently run a knife along the edges before unmolding. Pour over the warm coconut glaze then sprinkle with extra coconut and let cool completely.
Chill and Serve:
Refrigerate the glazed cake for two hours minimum before slicing. Serve chilled for best texture but let it sit out for ten to fifteen minutes before plating so it is extra creamy.
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One of my favorite parts is spooning the coconut glaze over the warm cake because the aroma fills the kitchen with a toasted coconut scent. My youngest cousin calls this her happy cake and insists we save her the biggest slice at every party.

How to Store This Cake

Keep the cake tightly covered in the refrigerator to maintain moisture. It will stay fresh for up to four days. For longer storage wrap individual slices and freeze. Thaw overnight in the fridge and enjoy chilled for the best experience.

Ingredient Swaps

You can use whole milk instead of two percent without changing the recipe. For the coconut milk choose a coconut cream for even more richness. If you want a lighter result use less condensed milk and a splash more regular milk.

Serving Ideas

Serve slices with fresh berries or a drizzle of passionfruit syrup for brightness. A spoonful of whipped cream makes it even more indulgent. At parties I like to cut the cake into small cubes and serve in cupcake papers for easy grab and go snacking.

Cultural Tradition

Atrapamarido is truly a Venezuelan classic. In Venezuela it is often baked for birthdays festive dinners and big family celebrations. Its nickname comes from old jokes that it is so delicious anyone would propose to the cook after a single taste.

Recipe FAQs

→ Can I substitute regular milk with full-fat coconut milk?

While all coconut milk is possible, using a blend of regular and coconut milk yields a lighter texture and balanced richness.

→ Why is the batter blended instead of whisked?

The blending process creates a silky, uniform batter, ensuring the finest crumb and even baking throughout.

→ What makes the glaze set well?

Cornstarch provides body to the glaze, allowing it to thicken just enough for a glossy coating that clings to the cake.

→ How can I tell if the cake is done baking?

Look for golden edges and a springy center—a toothpick inserted should come out mostly clean when ready.

→ Is chilling necessary before serving?

Chilling helps the flavors meld and the glaze to set, giving a creamy, distinctive texture that’s best enjoyed cold.

→ Can other toppings be added?

Toasted coconut or a sprinkle of lime zest add brightness and a fun twist to the classic finish.

Husband-catcher Coconut Cake

Light, fluffy coconut cake with silky glaze, perfect for gatherings. Enjoy cold for peak flavor and creamy texture.

Prep Time
5 minutes
Cooking Duration
35 minutes
Overall Cooking Time
40 minutes
Created By: Melanie Carter

Recipe Category: No-Bake Desserts

Skill Level: Moderate

Cuisine Style: Venezuelan

Result Amount: 8 Portions (One 20 cm coconut cake)

Diet Preferences: Suitable for Vegetarians

What You’ll Need to Make This

→ Cake batter

01 240 ml 2% milk
02 240 ml coconut milk
03 240 ml sweetened condensed milk
04 130 g wheat flour
05 3 eggs
06 65 g granulated sugar
07 15 ml vanilla extract

→ Coconut glaze

08 240 ml coconut milk
09 36 g granulated sugar
10 3 g cornstarch, dissolved in 45 ml water
11 15 g grated coconut
12 Additional grated coconut, for garnish

How to Prepare

Step 01

Preheat the oven to 180°C.

Step 02

Combine all cake batter ingredients in a blender. Blend for 5–10 minutes until entirely smooth with no visible lumps.

Step 03

Grease a fluted tube pan and pour in the batter. Bake for 35 minutes or until golden and a toothpick inserted comes out clean.

Step 04

While the cake is baking, combine coconut milk and sugar in a small pan. Simmer over low heat for 10 minutes, stirring gently, until slightly thickened.

Step 05

Add dissolved cornstarch and grated coconut into the pan. Stir constantly until the glaze thickens enough to briefly hold a line when a spoon is drawn through the middle.

Step 06

Remove the cake from the oven and allow it to cool in the pan for at least 20 minutes before unmolding onto a serving platter.

Step 07

Spread the coconut glaze evenly over the cooled cake and sprinkle with extra grated coconut for decoration.

Step 08

Refrigerate the cake for a minimum of 2 hours before slicing and serving.

Extra Tips

  1. For optimal texture, serve within one hour of removal from the refrigerator, then return to chill.

Tools Required

  • Blender
  • Fluted tube pan
  • Small saucepan

Allergen Info

Review ingredients carefully for allergens. Reach out to your healthcare provider if you’ve got specific concerns.
  • Contains eggs, milk, and wheat (gluten).

Nutritional Information (Per Serving)

Remember, this info is purely for reference and isn’t meant to replace dietary guidance.
  • Caloric Value: 400
  • Fat Content: 19 grams
  • Carbohydrate Content: 50 grams
  • Protein Content: 9 grams